Love Exist ?

Love exists or not? What is that one response which comes from your life experience and if you have not experienced it yet, don't worry you will feel it at the very least once in your life and it is necessary. What do you think about "Love exist or not?" comment down the accurate answer after reading this short article. I believe after reading this, you surely get the straight answer about LOVE.

                                                           LOVE EXIST OR NOT ?

I won't share any answer directly to not to ruin up your reading amusement. 

In the 21 century teenagers are able to get every kind of knowledge on  specific topic through internet whether it is Love, Study or any Skill etc and whatever they need to learn. Abundance of Internet gives access to knowing world, this opportunity we are having today. You also one of them to whom i am talking right now. You are 50 %  more independent than old generation's teenagers  and it is "awesome"Isn't? This is exactly what i want to share with you through my bewildering past experience and thanks to internet you can hear me. I am going to talking about love with same ages(opposite genders) not parent's unconditional love.

This is an another philosophy of parent's love and will also share about it and of course this also matter most. Let me clear one delusion about Parent's and Partner's love (loved one) is that these are two main different feelings that never could be same and never had been same, both matter most in life to grow and acknowledge maturity. Whoever thinks that Parent's love is greater than loved one's and suggest everyone to not to go in any other relation just because of he/she has never been is good experience or has been with wrong partner which never mad for them thus they should not judge these two beautiful feelings. People have been experiencing both type of love since the first human landed on earth.

 Perhaps you had been undergo in any relationship with someone so called lover whether experience is good or bad, no worry cheer up;everything teach us. As it may be your teenager age, young age or whatever is your age honestly saying feelings come near to every age but you may had considered every feeling as feeling of love, a true feeling might be it was not. It is nice that you have been in such a good relationship days or still watching dreams to be with someone in coming days so i am sending best of luck "greetings" you are at the right place. Here you will get answers whether your partner likes you or loves you?

 Yes, exactly this is big delusion in every human's mind that is what i was trying to expose. In this messed up generation individuals even do not know "what are they, what is my limit why am i birthed here?" Majority of people listen and accept their idiot friend's suggestions and enter into any uncertain relationship without knowing good or bad of future. This thing uncertainty ruins specific months of life sometimes years and it takes long time to realize. We believe on others instead of our grounded rules of living or inner self. This is so called danger zone.

Question comes; if you do not know even yourself then how can you say without any doubt that your recently meet partner loves you?

Do you have answer? 

Greeks Stoicism has answer:

 “Whoever then understands what is good, can also know how to love; but he who cannot distinguish good from bad, and things which are neither good nor bad from both, can he possess the power of loving? To love, then, is only in the power of the wise.”

                                                               WHAT IS LOVE ?

Take a glimpse on the definition you have been hear and believe:

Love is an incredibly powerful word. When you're in love, you always want to be together, and when you're not, you're thinking about being together because you need that person and without them your life is incomplete." 

This is called addiction not love my son, how can you say that it is wholly right?

Let me take out you from illusion: Love vs Like 

Liking someone:

You look good. You're pretty. Sexy.

Loving someone: 

I don't care how you look. You could look your ugliest, and I'd still want to cuddle you right away.

Liking someone:

Your presence gives me butterflies. I can't stop being conscious around you. I'm noticing you all the time, but make sure this doesn't catch your eye.

Loving someone:

You're comfortable. You feel like home. Talking to you isn't any undue stress, it only brightens up my day. The butterflies are long gone, the attraction has developed into something more concrete.

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Liking someone:

You are what I want. I'd do anything to keep you. You're bound to stay, my happiness and sanity craves for you.

Loving someone:

I hope you have a fulfilling life and find happiness, with or without me.

I hope you have crystal cleared the concept of loving and liking, best is yet to come keep reading.

"Love is what makes us Strong, Comfortable, Pure, Pride and addiction makes Vulnerable, Incomplete, Addicted, Uncomfortable and even also Filthy person".

CRUX: Addiction is unhealthy 

                                                               A SHORT STORY OF 

                                                                    YOUNG MAN

There was a young man. He used to live in a Village but to support his family he used to work in town. Once upon a time, while going back to home after work he met a saint. Saint was also passing by his village. So they accompanied.

As a typical person the young man was also interested in knowing the unsolved mysteries of love

Young man -Baba, I am a strong , confident person and I want to marry a girl but she isn't interested. What should I do?

Saint- why do you want to marry her?

Young man- Because i love her.

Saint- OK, gentleman , I understand. What are you carrying in your bag?

Young man- There are fish in my bag and our family love to eat.

Saint- So you cut the fish ,boil it and make recipe to eat just because you love fish! You love yourself not the fish . and it is the same with the girl you want to marry. You need her because you think she can give you physical and mental gratification, and that's not love.

Young man- Then ,what is love?

Saint- When you see a fish, and keep watching its wavy movement , It means you like it. But when you nurture it, feed it then that means you love it. But possessing it for yourself by in any other way means you are just a selfish.

So love is giving something not receiving.

 

                                                          HOW  CAN  YOU  KNOW ?  

                                                          YOU ARE  IN  DANGER 

Majority living their life with wrong ones this is called suffering. How i got to know that am i living with wrong or good person? 

Simple! if you are not seeing yourself happy, cheerful, successful, complete and ecstatic to just sitting with him/her then you are with wrong ones even he/she is wrong for you but may be good for other but not made for you or not matching humor with you. Most Important: if  you still trying to be with who is wrong for you this is called Danger zone. You are in danger.

Mostly people unfortunately could not get their true love. They spend long time of their life with wrong one and then tell other with love is fake. Nothing is fake just relation was fake. People you met whom were not made for you that's it. People eventually split.

Reasons could be anything, few are following below:

1. In ahead of relationship, your partner force you to change whatever they want to see in you and then leave you because you are not anymore once who did attract them in the first site of meeting. 
2. Partner does not able to feel new vibes and eventually gets in drowning of enlightenment, then leaves you when you divine yourself to them because you stops being you.
3. People leave us, might be their reason to come is to get experience of pleasure, intercourse  and they leave when its done.

                                               SOME GREAT ADVICE FROM MY 

                                                                EXPERIENCE 

                                                             

You know 7.8 Billion people are presently breathing in this world, Think about that you are not alone who only experienced bad days of relationship. Everything teach us, if problems and that kind of people never had come into your life then you would not be here today, in this maturity, self-knowing and self love. 

A smart person is who takes lessons from other's experiences. If you had already gone though it that's great. Now time to move on find out your purpose of life.

 I am going to give full stop to this article with sharing a inspirational quote, said by Epictetus. 

                     

 

                                  "Live your Life true love will come to you self"

I hope you enjoyed a lot and got some lessons.

Shoot your view in comment box, "Love exit or not?" your response motivates me a lot.

Thank you so much until next next blog!

Zubair Choudhary from @becomeatycoon, follow me on Insta for daily enlightenment.